High School Boys: The Struggle Is Real

By General Education Advice

“My son is struggling…” Donna noted in almost hushed tones as if she was conveying a secret.

I assured her that I hear variations of her story every day.

My first book was on the subject.

I might write a follow-up.

Our work is focused on elevating students both psychologically (Motivation) and technically (study skills) as well as in relation to content (tutoring).

Why Are So Many Boys Struggling in High School?

High school can be a challenging time for all students, but boys seem to be facing unique obstacles. Many boys are falling behind in school, struggling with motivation, and disengaging from the educational process. This is a serious problem that needs to be addressed.

What are the challenges facing boys in high school?

There are a number of factors that contribute to boys’ struggles in high school. One of the biggest challenges is the traditional school environment, which is often not designed to meet the needs of boys. Boys are often more kinesthetic learners, meaning they learn best by doing. However, the traditional classroom is often focused on lectures and passive learning. This can make it difficult for boys to stay engaged and motivated.

Another challenge is the lack of male role models in many schools. Boys need positive male role models to look up to and learn from. Unfortunately, many schools lack male teachers and administrators. This can leave boys feeling lost and disconnected.

What can be done to help boys succeed in high school?

There are a number of things that can be done to help boys succeed in high school. One of the most important things is to create a more engaging and interactive learning environment. This can be done by incorporating more hands-on activities, group work, and technology into the classroom.

It is also important to provide boys with positive male role models. This can be done by hiring more male teachers and administrators, and by bringing in guest speakers who are successful men in their fields.

Finally, it is important to address the social and emotional needs of boys. Boys are often reluctant to ask for help, so it is important to create a supportive and understanding environment where they feel comfortable seeking assistance.

What can parents do to help their sons succeed in high school?

Parents can also play a role in helping their sons succeed in high school. Here are a few tips:

  • Talk to your son about school. Ask him about his classes, his teachers, and his friends. Let him know that you are interested in his education.
  • Help him develop good study habits. This includes setting aside a regular time for homework, creating a quiet study space, and helping him to organize his materials.
  • Encourage him to get involved in extracurricular activities. This can help him to develop his interests and talents, and it can also help him to make friends.
  • Be a positive role model. Let your son see you reading, writing, and learning new things.
  • Seek help if needed. If you are concerned about your son’s academic performance, talk to his teacher or a school counselor.

It is important to remember that every boy is different. What works for one boy may not work for another. The most important thing is to be patient, understanding, and supportive. With the right support, boys can succeed in high school and beyond.