Ted, a junior from Daniel Hand High School, shuffled into our Madison office sometime pre-pandemic. My conversation with his father before the meeting focused on his lack of academic intensity and his directionless approach to college, career… and life. Ted’s father is a very nice person Ted’s mother is a very nice person. They both […]
Read MoreI spend some time working at The Brookings, the nation’s most well-known think tank. As far as I could tell, the scholars working there were exceptional researchers who rarely spoke in hyperbole. Their recent study, therefore, is particularly sobering. About a decade ago, I wrote Motivate Your Son. I described the paths that I saw young […]
Read MoreMy youngest daughter wanted to become a teacher since she was age 5. She headed to college believing that was her path. During her senior year, she interned with the best teacher that I know – Jennifer Brodeur – from Old Saybrook. She was also a natural. She loves babysitting and teaches swim lessons. I […]
Read MoreWhen do you become an adult? I ask students in our Connecticut offices. Not 18. When you move away from home. And, in America, at least for the fortunate, we have a better way of transitioning to adulthood than any other way in the history of the world. Hyberbole? Nope. Historically, boys become men by […]
Read MoreImagine you were a parent at the start of the Industrial Revolution. Explaining the practical world to your children would be a big problem. Your world was changing and about to change in unprecedented ways. How could you guide them? You only knew about farming or other pre-Industrial occupations and pathways to financial independence. We […]
Read MoreWe live in a relative bubble. The Connecticut coast is mostly filled with upper-middle-class and affluent families. Most came of age when upward mobility was common. Most probably have done as well or better or at least pretty close to as well as their parents. Most have not witnessed first hand downward mobility. Downward mobility […]
Read MoreThrough the years of giving presentations to students along Shoreline, Connecticut, I often ask: “When do you become an adult in America?” “18” a few mumble. I then ask if they’ll still be living at home at 18 and continue with the obvious point that not much will really change in their lives on when […]
Read MoreThroughout history, the normal transition to adulthood went something like this: Boys become men by becoming soldiers or starting full-time farming or manual labor or, if lucky, taking a bigger role in a family of merchants. Girls become women by marrying some older guy that they barely knew. What if you took a time machine […]
Read MoreIf you have a high school junior, the PSAT is coming up. A new test…. with new strategies. Contact us to learn more. Daryl CapuanoCEO, The Learning Consultants and Connecticut’s top private education consultant full bio
Read More“I realized he thinks I’m stupid.” Joe, a sophomore from Old Lyme, CT said. He had received a poor report card in 10th grade. His Dad, following the current version of the good parent playbook, said “as long as you did your best.” His Dad is a nice guy. Indeed, I probably would say the […]
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