I don’t recall ever having parents regret starting the college process too soon. I certainly know hundreds who have regretted starting too late. By college process, I don’t mean that you should start touring colleges with your 8th grader. Instead, as parents, you should start considering what themes would generally make sense to serve your […]
Read MoreWhat if…. you considered the greatness of the American college experience? Throughout history, the normal transition to adulthood went something like this: Boys become men by becoming soldiers or starting full time farming or manual labor or, if lucky, taking a bigger role in the family business. Girls become women by marrying some older guy. […]
Read MoreAs we have been immersed in college counseling the last few years, we have also been immersed in helping students transfer colleges. Several factors have radically increased the desire for freshman (and some sophomores) to either transfer or explore transferring. 1.) The Pandemic There is the obvious tangible reason. Families made college choices without engaging […]
Read More“We are not really being taught,” Alexa began. The teacher shows us videos. We are supposed to learn on our own and then work together in class. The teacher is supposed to answer questions but we now all think that she doesn’t really know the subject.” Twenty years ago, when I started The Learning Consultants, […]
Read MoreI wrote Motive Your Son a decade ago. I had created The Learning Consultants and its Student Mastery Program with the goal of training students in our Shoreline, CT area on how to be good students. I soon discovered that a disproportionate amount of motivational work within the Student Mastery framework was with boys. To be clear, […]
Read MoreThe Boy Problem If you are a parent of a teen boy, you know or are likely learning that boys are underachieving at an alarming rate. There are factors that cannot be controlled: while there is a mismatch of our education system with all students, the mismatch seems particularly high for boys. There are factors […]
Read MoreThis is not a political post. I’m radically independent. But I know that some parts of this post will touch the third rail of partisan politics. I’m sure no one who is an extremist will be happy with what I write but I also hope it will help those in suburban Connecticut towns gain an […]
Read MoreI am not the parent… so my advice is brilliant 🙂 “He’ll listen to you.” Cindy noted as we laughed – again – about how her son would follow my guidance but not his mom’s, even though we generally agreed about most everything. Recently, a guidance counselor from a local high school along the Connecticut […]
Read More“That must have been a great college essay.” I was running an undergraduate house while I was at Penn Law School. During introductions, of one the students relayed how his family escaped the Khmer Rouge in Cambodia, lived as refugees for years in Guam and finally wound up struggling and impoverished in California. It […]
Read MoreMarketing The Student As A College Admissions Product Ugh… just writing those words makes me uncomfortable. I am an idealist, a practical one but nonetheless someone who left the practice of law to follow my calling into educational counseling to help others. Telling students to figure out how to best “market themselves” is not something […]
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